The Time I Was Almost Raped And Why This Is Important To Share

Dr. Ava Pommerenk
10 min readMar 14, 2019

This is a vulnerable post, because of the shame I (and many women, and some men) feel in somehow ending up, repeatedly, in situations like this. It is important we start sharing about these almost-rape experiences, to overcome shame and begin to shift societies and cultures around the world.

I imagine every man who has been in an even somewhat romantic context with me is clutching their pearls right now. Cool it. Because I am trained to protect men from the consequences of their own behaviors, I won’t reveal your name…

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Dr. Ava Pommerenk

Coach. Psychologist. Writing about new perspectives, love, relationships, Narcissism, healing, transformation, & culture. www.avapommerenkphd.com