I have taken time to sit with your comment, because I haven't known how to respond.
I am confused. I never used the word, "but".
You have absolutely no idea about the experiences I have gone through of victimization, in my life. It is remarkable that you stooped to this level to comment on my victimization experiences, and subsequent healing (or lack of healing or learning) that I have supposedly done.
My hope for you is you learn to address the place inside you where you believe attacking someone is EVER justified, due to your own pain, or a disagreement.
I wish you the best during these times. I hope you have found a way to be well, in the midst of this pandemic.
To be very clear, I will not keep engaging with you, if you cannot speak to me respectfully.
I suppose this is all I have to say.