I don’t expect you to just swallow what I share here. I appreciate that we have different perspectives. I also appreciate this conversation. I don’t think you are looking at your male privilege, but I don’t think you are evil for this, by any means. I also think your response shows some typical responses men have when they have yet to look at their privilege. But, you are at least kind and respectful as you engage me, and are bringing up great points to consider in how to hold all parties accountable.


I agree with what you write here:

“One- until an individual is faced with it they will never know what that situation truly feels like. Second- if a child that came from me was aborted I’d be heartbroken probably forever. Last- I wish we fought for the children that are here as hard as we fight for the ones we don’t want to make it here.”

Coach. Psychologist. Writing about new perspectives, love, relationships, Narcissism, healing, transformation, & culture. www.avapommerenkphd.com

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