I am sorry you grew up with an abusive parent. I grew up with one too, so I can relate.
Yeah, I didn’t write this detail. I am hoping others can discern that abuse is never ok.
I don’t feel moved to expend the energy necessary to help you qualify for yourself that , 1) I don’t have a personality disorder, and 2) that my “extremes” are extreme enough, in the right ways for you.
Perhaps if this article got you fired up in this way, this may inspire you to write something about it, and post it? I am sure many people could benefit from you sharing about this topic, and your feelings/experiences with it?
I wish you the best.