A Lost Cat In Mexico: A Story Of Discovering Far More Than A Cat

Dr. Ava Pommerenk
10 min readMar 17, 2019

I currently live in the southern Mexican city of San Cristobal de Las Casas. I have been here at the time of writing this story, for almost a year and a half now. It has been a challenge to build solid, close friendships, as I find that it has been a rough adjustment for me to engage socially in an unplanned way, the way others do here. I am a control freak. I like scheduling things. It is really a challenge to change course suddenly, yet this is what most people do here. Daily life here is often filled with novelty, spontaneity, and surprises…

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Dr. Ava Pommerenk

Coach. Psychologist. Writing about new perspectives, love, relationships, Narcissism, healing, transformation, & culture. www.avapommerenkphd.com